So have you ever noticed how you tell yourself one thing and it seems that no matter how hard you try, it doesn’t turn out the way you wanted?
For instance; money or wealth. You say to yourself, “I am going to be financially free this year!” or “I am going to make $10,000.00 this month!” And you either hit a wall and give up or you make money only to lose it???
Wonder how you can change that?
It comes from the imprint of your beliefs and the culture around you. Think about it.
What did your family or your friends; your teachers or those close to you tell you when you were younger?
Did they say that ‘money doesn’t grow on trees’ or ‘only the rich get richer’ or ‘you have to work hard to make money and even then you have to be lucky to keep it’ OR
Did you family say, ‘you can have anything you want, all you have to do is apply yourself’
NOW here is the kicker….how did they behave? Did they follow what they said or did they ‘do’ something different.
You have heard that only 7% of our communication is through words. So think of it in relation. Only 7% of what we say influences our behaviors. But, the other 93% is what structures who we are and become.
So how did the people you looked up to or modeled in your life behave?
Now that you understand that, look at your own behaviors and challenges and you will see where there is a ‘self sabotage’ that happens to you at an unconscious level.
So when you put so much energy and effort into achieving a goal and right at the end, right before you have succeeded, you start to doubt yourself; or you quit. The self sabotaging behavior rears its head and stops you – so that it can prove you right, based on your deep unconscious belief.
If you ever want to overcome these challenges and create Abundance in your life, you will have to face this lesson and learn to overcome it.
the good news is that is can be done and you will find a great sense of peace from the experience.
So, the most important thing to do, is not to punish or beat yourself up for these beliefs but acknowledge that you discovered them and allow yourself to take action to make the changes now.
Feel free to email me or call me if you have or are experiencing a problem that is stopping you or developing stress and unhappiness in your life. I will be happy to discuss with you, the ways you can this problem go and have the abundance and sustainability we all desire.